How You Can Help Normalize Menopause In The Workplace?

Openness about menopause—talking about, demystifying, destigmatizing, and normalizing it—is good for society as a whole, and especially for those directly affected by it:  ALL women.

After all, we normalized pregnancy and are destigmatizing mental health in the workplace, aren’t we? Let’s do the same with menopause.

 

This is such an important topic and, finally, we are able to talk about it openly, without shame or embarrassment.

Well, some of us are and we hope you will join us.

 

Employers who care about their employees should implement policies aimed at supporting those who are going through the menopause transition and experiencing symptoms. It is crucial to create a supportive environment that caters to their specific needs during this inevitable phase of life.

 

Women should be actively encouraged to seek assistance in managing their menopausal symptoms, and they should be well-informed about the various resources available to guide them through this transition.

Providing access to information and resources will empower women to make informed decisions regarding their management options and overall well-being.

 

How can YOU help normalize menopause in YOUR workplace?

 

Start by offering, or by helping to organize, an awareness session (Lunch & Learn, Health & Wellness talk/workshop, Employee Day/Week) about menopause for employees in your workplace.

 

What about organizing a Lunch N Learn to celebrate WORLD MENOPAUSE DAY (#WMD), October 18th ?  This year’s theme is Cardiovascular Disease.

 

Contrary to common belief, more women die of heart disease than of breast cancer.  Most people don’t know this fact.

Science also shows that women with untreated hot flashes and night sweats are at increased risk for #heartdisease.

 

WORLD MENOPAUSE DAY (#WMD), October 18th, presents a great opportunity to organize a heath and wellness event about menopause for your team.

 

Feel free to reach out (email me – teresa at menopaused dot org) if you’re interested in having me deliver a talk at your workplace (in-person or virtually) on or near this date.

 

Due to the high demand for presentations about menopause in October, I recommend securing your booking well in advance. DM or email me for more details.

 

Download my Breaking The Silence & Ending The Secrecy of Menopause – 3 Strategies To Improve The Workplace Learn How To Break The Silence & End The Secrecy Of Menopause HERE  

 

“If you want change, you have to make it. If we want progress we have to drive it.”
— Susan Rice

 

 

Are You Frustrated by Conflicting Advice on Menopause?

Are You Frustrated by Conflicting Advice on Menopause?

 

Because there’s still a lot confusion, misinformation, and controversy when it comes to the menopause transition, Lindsay Dixon BSP RPh interviewed me on her Friendly Pharmacy 5 YouTube Channel to address important and relevant issues that aren’t talked about often enough.

 

In this interview we dive into the influential findings and flaws of the Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) trial that still prevent many women from receiving adequate treatment during menopause, and I share my expert perspective on the persistent problem of conflicting advice surrounding menopause.

 

Discover how the Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) has played a role in shaping the landscape of menopause education and management, and explore the options available to women today. Watch The Menopause Journey: Symptoms, Treatments, Supplements, Expert Insights here.

 

CHAPTERS:

 

00:00 Why menopause is confusing for women and healthcare professionals

02:19 Menopause Educator Teresa Isabel Dias

02:53 Teresa’s Menopause Story

05:24 How the Womens Health Initiative Trial change our approach to Menopause

08:53 Menopause Education for Healthcare Professionals

09:50 Definitions of Perimenopause and Menopause

12:18 Signs of Perimenopause

15:17 How Menopause Affects the Brain

17:15 Difficulty losing weight after menopause

18:32 Muscle Mass and Menopause

19:36 Bone Health and Menopause

21:35 Treatments for Menopause Symptoms

22:48 Breast Cancer Patients and Menopause Therapies

25:23 Non-Hormone Therapy Position Statement: NAMS 2023

26:22 Bioidentical Hormones and Topical Therapies for Menopause

30:32 Knowing you personal Risk in regards to Menopause Therapies

34:12 Hormone levels as data sets for menopause

36:25 Heavy Period and Bloating with Menopause or Perimenopause

38:27 Normalizing and Navigating Menopause

41:06 menopaused.org

 

 

Teresa Isabel Dias BSc Pharm RPh NCMP

I am a pharmacist and North American Menopause Society certified menopause practitioner (NCMP) residing in Canada with over 25 years of healthcare experience in women’s health. Specializing in midlife hormonal changes, I offer guidance on managing physical, emotional, and mental challenges, aiding women to regain balance and vibrancy in their lives, both professionally and personally.

My educational programs and supportive resources have been deployed to prestigious institutions and corporations including the Open Societies Foundation, CAA, Royal Bank of Canada, Maple Leaf Foods, the University of Waterloo, University of Toronto, Brock University, and Stantec. I’ve also contributed to valuable articles to pharmacy associations and the Pharmacy Practice + Business magazine.

My holistic approach to midlife women’s health aims to ensure women not only navigate the challenges of menopause successfully but also continue to lead fulfilling, productive lives during this transformative phase.

 

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Lindsay Dixon BSP RPh

Lindsay Dixon is a Registered Pharmacist residing in Canada. She’s the recipient of the Ben Gant Practice Innovation award from the BC Pharmacy Association in 2021 and was most recently selected by Pharmacy Practice & Business Magazine as the recipient of the Raise Your Voice Award in 2022.

On her Friendly Pharmacy 5 YouTube Channel Lindsay provides advice, from the perspective of a pharmacist, to viewers like you about important and relevant topics such as gut microbiome, vitamin D, brain health, vitamin K, migraine prevention, sleep and immunity, and much more.

The channel has almost 30,000 subscribers – join them, subscribe, and watch here.

 

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DISCLAIMER: Friendly Pharmacy 5 health videos are for medical information only, and are NOT intended to replace recommendations and individualized assessments from your Primary Care Provider.

Please consider supporting the Friendly Pharmacy 5 channel – your support allows pharmacist Lindsay Dixon to improve the content quality and create more content for viewers like you! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/LindsayD…

 

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The more we talk about menopause the sooner we’ll normalize it and the better women will be supported through this inevitable change.

 


For every challenge that (peri)menopause poses there’s a solution. I can help you!

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Looking for something to read this summer?

If you’re looking for books about important topics related to woman’s midlife health and wellbeing to read this summer keep on reading.

I love reading and am always getting ideas (too many) for books from friends, articles, my book club, podcasts, and others.

Recently I received an email from a subscriber with a link to an article in The Guardian, a British daily newspaper – All the rage: the rise of the menopause novel.

 

I went down a “book hole” and researched some of the novels in the article and a few sound good, and interesting. I haven’t read any of them but I put a few on hold at the Toronto Public Library where I get (FOR FREE!!!) the majority of the books I read and listen to (on Libby App).

 

The authors are women, British and Irish, who wrote “novels to take on the menopause” because of their own journey through the hormonal changes of midlife.

 

Joanne Harris, the author of Chocolate (remember the book or the movie starring Juliette Binoche, circa 2000?) says “Why do we always have to hear about the princesses? Why do we not get to hear more about the wicked witches and the stepmothers because that’s what the princesses will grow into eventually?”  AHAHAHAHAHA!

 

“These new novels dare to imagine the lives of women at the point where they have crossed into the abyss of middle age. When, as Victoria Smith puts it in her blistering polemic Hags, also published this year, they are dealing with “the loss of the Fs that matter most to the patriarchy: fertility, femininity, fuckability”.

 

And I have my personal favourites list for non-fiction literature about health and wellness for women in midlife that elaborates on my P.L.E.A.S.E. Yourself! Six Tips For An Easier Menopause Transition (Positivity, Less stress (or better, stress management), Eating healthy foods, Awareness of what your body is going through, Sleep, Exercise).

 

If you haven’t yet, please grab this quick guide and learn techniques to minimize menopause symptoms here (scroll down a few times to get to the right page).

 

 Here’s my book list. Happy reading:

 

Menopause – The Change For The Better by Deborah Garlick

Managing Hot Flushes & Night Sweats. A Cognitive Behavioural Self-Help Guide To The Menopause by Prof. Myra Hunter and psychologist Melanie Smith

The XX Brain by Dr. Lisa Mosconi

A Woman’s Guide to Healthy Aging: 7 Proven Ways to Keep You Vibrant, Happy & Strong, by Vivien Brown, MD

Moody Bitches: The Truth About The Drugs You’re Taking, The Sleep You’re Missing, The Sex You’re Not Having, And What’s Really Making You Crazy by Dr Julie Holland (for all women still ovulating/menstruating!)

Sleep After Menopause by Maria J. Sunseri, MD

The Joy of Movement – How Exercise Helps Us Find Happiness, Hope, Connection, and Courage by psychologist Kelly McGonigal

Better Sex Through Mindfulness – How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, PhD

The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health With Facts And Feminism by Dr. Jen Gunter

 

I confess that I usually listen to audiobooks because it takes me months to finish reading a book due to lack of time. Or rather, lack of making time for reading a book (“me time”) which I’m always preaching that you (and my clients) should do…but this is a theme for another blog…

 

Feel free to share this blog and/or the link to P.L.E.A.S.E. Yourself! Six Tips For An Easier Menopause Transition with friends

 

The more women know about menopause the fewer will suffer through it and the better our society will be. And if it starts by reading a book all the better…

 

As always, if you need help nevigating your menopause transition let’s talk. Connect with me here

 

It’s Ok To Talk About Women’s Vaginal And Sexual Health

If we are comfortable talking about earaches, sore throat, and runny noses, why don’t we talk about vaginal dryness with the same ease? It’s ok to talk about women’s vaginal and sexual health, they are parts of our body and our lives.

Vaginal dryness and pain during sex are two of the most common and least talked about symptoms of perimenopause and postmenopause.

 

Vaginal dryness and pain during sex are two of the symptoms of the Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM). Other physical changes and symptoms that occur due to lack of estrogen (not aging) include

  • vulvovaginal (vulva and the clitoris are the fleshy parts that touch your clothes) burning or irritation, itching,
  • urinary symptoms of urgency, pain with urination, and recurrent urinary tract infection (UTI).

 

Vaginal dryness doesn’t affect only women who are sexually active. It can also make sitting, biking, and wearing tight clothes very uncomfortable.

 

If you’ve gone through 2-3 pairs of bike shorts in the last few years and none feels comfortable it may be that you’re experiencing vaginal dryness.

 

GSM affects more than 50% of postmenopausal women.

 

It is especially noted in breast cancer survivors, due to chemotherapy-induced ovarian

insufficiency, surgical removal of the ovaries, or radiation therapy, and unfortunately most cases are undiagnosed and untreated.

 

And the problem usually doesn’t resolve by itself.

 

In fact, if not properly treated, it gets WORSE.

 

In her podcast Tracy Seider Coaching | The Reshape Method™, Tracy Seider, a movement coach, asked me very important questions about:

 

  • WHY dryness, itching, burning, and discomfort or pain during sex happen at peri- and post-menopause

 

  • WHAT to do about it

 

You can watch “Intimacy & Menopause: How to get your MOJO back – and what to do about dryness and pain”  here.

 

What can you do to improve your vaginal symptoms?

 

First, if you’re experiencing symptoms of GMS it’s important that you make an appointment with your doctor for a physical examination to ensure a proper diagnosis and exclude other conditions that might mimic GSM, such as vaginitis (inflammation of the vagina caused by a vaginal bacteria or yeast), lichen sclerosus (a dermatological condition), a very tight pelvic floor, or other conditions.

 

Second, make an appointment with me to discuss the best therapies for your GSM.

 

Third, you can try a non-hormonal vaginal moisturizer. My favourite is Repagyn because it contains hyaluronic acid and helps keep tissues hydrated. In Ontario you have to ask the pharmacist for it since it is kept behind the counter. Vaginal moisturizers maintain tissue integrity, elasticity, and pliability and should be used on a regular basis.

 

Third (yes 3rd again because you can use moisturizers and lubricants together), use a silicone-based lubricant during sexual activity, with a toy or a person. The best out of the many I tried (yes, I’m usually the guinea-pig!!) is Uberlube. Lubricants reduce friction and discomfort during penetrative sexual activity. Available water-based lubricants can cause irritation and oil-based lubricants can damage condoms.

 

Fourth, moisturizers and lubricants do not regenerate the tissues that have been affected by the lack of estrogen. The most effective therapy for GSM is low-dose vaginal estrogen and other therapies available by prescription. When you book a consultation with me we’ll discuss what’s happening, how you’re feeling about it, what your expectations are, and the available therapies FOR YOU.

 

You deserve the best health and wellbeing.

 

The best way to ensure you get the best healthcare is by advocating for yourself.

 

I can arm you with the right knowledge so you can advocate for yourself.

 

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How to raise awareness about menopause in your workplace

You may not have been directly affected by menopause but I bet someone you know, work with, live with, or are friends with has. That’s because ALL women experience menopause, if they live long enough.

And since women make up half the population, I can guarantee that you know someone affected by menopause.

This is why openness about menopause—talking about, demystifying, destigmatizing, and normalizing it—is good for society as a whole, and especially for those directly affected by it:  ALL women.

 

After all, we normalized pregnancy and are destigmatizing mental health in the workplace, aren’t we? Let’s do the same with menopause.

 

This is such an important topic and, finally, we are able to talk about it openly, without shame or embarrassment.

Well, some of us are and we hope you will join us.

Here’s a shout-out to CBC Radio morning hosts in Quebec City, London, Calgary, Whitehorse, Vancouver, Victoria, and other cities across Canada who interviewed me about menopause in the workplace.

You can listen to my conversation on Daybreak South (Kelowna) with host @Chris Walker on (May 31st, 2023, min 36:45 ).

 

How can YOU help normalize menopause in YOUR workplace?

 

Start by offering, or by helping to organize, an awareness session (Lunch & Learn, Health & Wellness talk/workshop, Employee Day/Week) about menopause for employees in your workplace.

 

You may think that a session about menopause at your workplace isn’t needed but you’d be surprised at how well-received these sessions are. I know that as a fact – I’ve delivered many 60-90-minute talks about menopause and there’s never enough time to answer all the questions attendees have and wish to ask.

 

Such interest in the topic doesn’t surprise me because menopause has been shrouded in secrecy and women experiencing it feel very lonely and isolated. When they finally have the opportunity to attend a presentation that provides awareness and education about menopause they feel “normal”, validated, and empowered.

 

How can you offer or help organize a Let’s Talk About Menopause session at your workplace?

 

Easy – send me an email  or book a Discovery Call so we can talk about a session (LunchNLearn, Health & Wellness, etc.) menopause at the workplace, in-person or online.

CBC Radio morning show interview about menopause in the workplace

Here’s a shout-out to CBC Radio morning hosts in Quebec City, London, Kitchener-Waterloo, Windsor, Calgary, Whitehorse, Kelowna, Prince Rupert/Prince George, Vancouver, Victoria, and other cities across Canada who interviewed me about menopause in the workplace.

 

Menopause affects all women—who make up a little over 50% of the population—but it’s been shrouded in secrecy.

 

Menopause is still taboo and many feel embarrassed and ashamed talking about it.

Talking about, demystifying, destigmatizing, and normalizing menopause is good for society as a whole and especially for those directly affected by it:  ALL women.

Menopause is still taboo and many feel embarrassed and ashamed talking about it.

You can listen to my conversation on Daybreak South (Kelowna) with host Chris Walker on (May 31st, 2023, min 36:45 ) here.

 

You can also read this excerpt:

 

Radio host: What demographics are we talking about, how many women are working through menopause?

Teresa Isabel: According to a report by the Menopause Foundation of Canada, women make up almost 50% of the workforce and there are over 5 million working women over the age of 40, and there are more than two million working women between the ages of 45 to 55, the age most reach menopause at.

 

Radio host: What are the most common symptoms that affect women at work?

Teresa Isabel: There’s a list of about 30 symptoms of menopause but in a survey of working women done in the UK a few years ago the five top symptoms at work were fatigue, which affected more than 40% of women, hot flashes, focus and concentration problems, anxiety and worry, and insomnia. These symptoms are very common and affected over 30% of women surveyed.

 

Radio host: How much awareness/understanding do employers have?

Teresa Isabel: Well employers are not understanding because most are not aware of the menopause, yet. Thank you for doing a show about menopause in the workplace because this is where we need to start. We need to raise awareness that half of the population will go through menopause and 20% of women who go through menopause experience severe symptoms that affect their quality of life and their quality of work. These women need and would like to receive support in the workplace.

It’s important for employers to understand that menopause exists. Menopause has been shrouded in secrecy and it’s been a big taboo; no one talks about it; there’s no intergenerational sharing and women don’t know what they are experiencing during the hormonal changes of midlife.

  • One place for employers to start is by providing awareness and education in the workplace to reduce stigma and to normalize menopause. That can be done by offering Lunch & Learns or Health & Wellness sessions on menopause for employees and managers.
  • It’s also good to create network groups within the organization that provide safe spaces for women to share their experiences and to facilitate the much-needed intergenerational sharing.
  • Offering robust benefit plans.
  • Creating best practices, guidance, or policies that are inclusive of the needs of employees going through the menopause transition. Each woman will go through her own individualized menopause so one-size-fits-all is not a good approach. But having policies that are inclusive of the needs of each woman is good.
  • Also helpful is offering support with reasonable adjustments. Many reasonable adjustments that don’t cost a lot can be helpful and go a long way in helping women with symptoms to work in their own terms, such as:
    • allowing flexible work. For example, suitable shifts. Some women wake up very early and they would like to start working earlier and leave work earlier. Others may like an extended lunch hour to have a nap and recharge.
    • good temperature and ventilation control
    • clean and easy access to washrooms
    • having uniforms made of natural, breathable fibres and being able to dress in layers

 

Radio show: What can employers do so women don’t feel singled out when they speak about menopause?

Teresa Isabel: That’s a very good point. Women may not speak up because of fear of being singled out or discriminated against. However, if we talk about menopause and create a menopause-friendly workplace, if it is part of the work culture, then women are more likely to feel comfortable talking about it.  Because the reality is that most women would like to be able to have a conversation with their managers about what they’re going through and what they need when they experience symptoms at work. If managers knew about menopause and the potential impact on a women’s life it would be safer for women to come forth and talk about it and ask for support.

If organizations were a menopause-friendly place that would be helpful for employers as well.

It helps when there’s a “menopause champion” at work. An employee who is willing to talk about menopause and help women find support; it’s a great step towards creating a menopause-friendly workplace. The higher this menopause champion is in the organization’s ranks the better because when senior leadership demonstrates that menopause is important and that it should be normalized and taken seriously that gives anyone permission to talk about it.

 

If you would like to offer a menopause session in your workplace contact the author, Teresa Isabel Dias, pharmacist and North American  Menopause Society Certified Menopause Practitioner (NCMP)  https://menopaused.org

I’m in the national news as a menopause expert! 

Exciting news!  I’m in the national news as a menopause expert!

 

A few weeks ago I was interviewed by the CBC about my favourite topic, menopause.

 

And last week CBC published this story, What Doctors Recommend To Treat Symptoms of Menopause Transition quoting a number of menopause experts, yours truly included!

 

Here are some snippets from the article:

 

There are more than 30 symptoms of perimenopause identified by the Menopause Foundation of Canada, like hot flashes and heart palpitations. Those symptoms can sometimes continue until the end of life.

But it’s important that women raise these symptoms with their health-care provider, according to Teresa Isabel Dias, a pharmacist and a North American Menopause Society certified menopause practitioner (NCMP) based in Toronto.

That way a doctor can rule out any medical conditions that may have similar symptoms to the menopausal transition, she said.

 

On hot flashes and night sweats:

 

Dias suggests going to bed cold by using lighter blankets, wearing pyjamas made out of cotton and keeping a glass of water nearby. Women have also used a cold compress for relief.

But, she says, for some, those methods aren’t enough.

“If you really have a hard time with night sweats, you’re going to have to do something else.”

Hormone therapy — systemic estrogen therapy and estrogen-progesterone therapy for those with a uterus — are the standard treatments, according to Dias and [Dr. Shafeena] Premji.

 

On weight gain:

 

A big hindrance to getting active is the fatigue that may come with the change. Women may experience it because of sleep disturbance, stress or because of inflammation caused by the changing estrogen levels.

Dias says she recognizes it can be hard to get a workout in when you’re fatigued, but to try to exercise as much as possible and to eat well.

“All these adjustments help a bit,” she said.

 

And on hormone therapy:

 

Experts say it’s not a one-size-fits-all approach to menopause hormone therapy as every woman has their own risk profile. Speaking to a health-care professional is essential.

Menopause hormone therapy for most women will generally include estrogen and progesterone, Premji said. Women who have had a hysterectomy will only receive estrogen.

Premji and Dias say the general guidelines on who can take hormone therapy to manage symptoms are: women who are younger than 60 with no medical conditions that preclude them from taking hormones, and women who are less than 10 years post-menopause.

 

Subscribers to my newsletter, and women who have heard one of my talks, have already heard all this from me. But it’s heartening to see that these concerns are getting a wider hearing in the national media.

 

You can subscribe to my MenopausED Newsletter here.
You can chat with me about your menopause transition here.

 

Menopause on White Coat Black Art with Dr. Brian Goldman

 

Thank you Dr. Brian Goldman CBC Radio Host   and  Colleen Ross, award-winning journalist and Senior Producer of White Coat, Black Art and The Dose podcast on CBC Radio,  for boradcasting about menopause.

Because menopause is still very much taboo women are caught by surprise when they start perimenopause (the years leading up to menopause).

 

In perimenopause hormones fluctuate and women feel many changes – physical, cognitive and emotional.

Memory lapses, anger, crying spells, difficulty sleeping, hot flashes, night sweats, irritability, body shape change, aches and pains, are common.

Most women are unprepared for this change. The majority feels very alone on this journey.

Millions of people (everyone born with ovaries) are going through perimenopause as you read this.

Primary care physicians aren’t trained about menopause.

Women have to find answers on their own.

 

Listen to White Coat Black Art with Dr. Brian Goldman: The Menopause Movement: Part I  podcast and learn more  here.

I’m a North American Certified Menopause Practitioner (NCMP) and I can help you connect the dots and answer your perimenopause questions. Connect with me here.
 

 

Menopause is just heating up. Going mainstream.

Menopause is just heating up.

 

Menopause has FINALLY gone mainstream. It was talked about on primetime television in Canada.

ON THE (CBC, The National) NEWS. ABOUT. TIME.

So the mainstream media is finally catching on!

There are millions of women in Canada and all over the world going through menopause.

 

Feeling the changes.

 

Needing good information and care.

 

Let’s take menopause out of the shadows. For the sake of our mental, physical, and emotional health.

 

Women need to advocate for themselves.

 

For women to advocate for themselves, they must know SOMETHING about the menopause journey in order to ask the right questions of their health providers.

 

So, I feel compelled to do an online workshop to discuss menopause and help you be your own health advocate.

 

Join me on January 12th at noon for 45 minutes of Let’s Talk About Menopause.

 

Register free here 

Invite your friends
Invite your manager and CEO. Menopause is the last health taboo in the workplace
Bring your questions (and your lunch).

 

 

On The National, CBC’s flagship newscast, this week: 

Menopause is having a moment, and many say it’s about time. Watch here.

 

Everything you need to know about menopause (and perimenopause). Watch here.

 

Have questions for me about menopause? Ask here.

 

Would you like to have a Lunch & Learn about menopause at your workplace? Email me

 

Share my Breaking The Silence & Ending The Secrecy of Menopause – 3 Strategies To Improve The Workplace Learn How To Break The Silence & End The Secrecy Of Menopause with your HR or Health & Wellness departments at work.

 

For every challenge that (peri)menopause poses there’s a solution. I can help you!

 

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New year’s goals. New year’s habits.

As you may know from experience, most new year’s resolutions don’t see March. That’s because they’re usually more wishes than real resolutions. Instead of making a new year’s wish I encourage you to set a new year’s goal(s).

 

What should your goal(s) for 2023 be?

Business coaches and experts ask entrepreneurs like me to define our “why” in order to set business goals and lay out plans and tasks to accomplish them.

 

The answer to my why, “why do I work on women’s health and specifically in menopause?”, is

  • women need to be aware of menopause,
  • women need good science-based and reliable information,
  • women need to know where to get support.

 

But recently I read—in This Year I Will by M. J. Ryan—a better approach to setting and working towards my goals.

 

Instead of “what is my why?”, the question becomes “what do I most want?”

 

  • I want menopause to be normalized,
  • I want women to know what to expect during the menopause journey and beyond,
  • I want women to have access to good information and support.

 

It’s a subtle change but it has made a big improvement in how I now define and work towards my goals.

You can also ask “what to I most want?” to define your health and other personal goals.

 

What do you WANT in 2023?

 

When setting a goal, be specific about what you want to accomplish.

  • To achieve a goal you need to focus your attention and resources on what is most important so you can set your priorities.
  • How important is the goal to you and what you can do (alone or with help) to make it attainable?
  • The goal is meant to inspire motivation, not discouragement.
  • You can set goals, but if it lacks realistic timing, chances are you’re not going to succeed.
  • Write it down.
  • Share your goal intentions with others ( let me know what your menopause goal for 2023 is)

 

For better results when setting a goal make it S-M-A-R-T – specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely.
For example, if  your goal for 2023 is to manage your menopause symptoms so you can enjoy a vibrant and productive life, then the S-M-A-R-T criteria may look like this:

 

 

Specific – I WANT to reduce my menopause symptoms.

 

Measurable – (What data will measure the goal? How much? How well?)

I WANT to decrease hot flashes/night sweats; I WANT to treat vaginal dryness & decrease pain with sex; I WANT to experience less brain fog, I WANT to minimize anxious thoughts, I WANT to increase my energy).

 

Achievable – (Is the goal doable? Do you have the necessary skills and resources?)

Do I need help? I know I can call Teresa Isabel to figure out my best course of action to improve my menopause symptoms.

 

Relevant – (How does the goal align with broader goals? Why is the result important?)

If I stop the night sweats I will sleep better and have more energy. If I initiate a treatment for vaginal dryness then my relationship with my partner will improve and we’ll feel closer to each other. If I control my anxious thoughts then I will feel more relaxed, work more efficiently, and enjoy my life better.

 

Timely – (When are you going to do this?) A vague “I’ll do it someday” or “soon” or “when I have time” is unlikely to succeed – it’s too easy to put things off indefinitely.

A timely goal sets a timeframe – I will do X (i.e. book a Discovery Call with Teresa Isabel in January), Y in February, and Z before my summer vacation. Something like that.

 

Go ahead:  Figure out your goal.

 

What do you most WANT for 2023?

 

Write down your S-M-A-R-T goal.

 

Allow me to help you decrease your menopause symptoms in 2023 and beyond so you can feel like yourself again and enjoy a vibrant, and productive life.

 

Let’s talk.
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